What does the Bible say about birth control? Should Christians use birth control?

Modern birth control methods were unknown in Bible times, and the
Bible is, therefore, silent on the matter. The Bible does have quite a
lot to say about children, however. The Bible presents children as a
gift from God (Genesis 4:1; Genesis 33:5), a heritage from the Lord
(Psalm 127:3-5), a blessing from God (Luke 1:42), and a crown to the
aged (Proverbs 17:6). God sometimes blesses barren women with children
(Psalm 113:9; Genesis 21:1-3; 25:21-22; 30:1-2; 1 Samuel 1:6-8; Luke
1:7, 24-25). God forms children in the womb (Psalm 139:13-16). God
knows children before their birth (Jeremiah 1:5; Galatians 1:15).

The closest that Scripture comes to condemning birth control is
Genesis chapter 38, the account of Judah's sons Er and Onan. Er
married a woman named Tamar, but he was wicked and the Lord put him to
death, leaving Tamar with no husband or children. Tamar was given in
marriage to Er's brother, Onan, in accordance with the law of levirate
marriage in Deuteronomy 25:5-6. Onan did not want to split his
inheritance with any child that he might produce on his brother's
behalf, so he practiced the oldest form of birth control, withdrawal.
Genesis 38:10 says, "What he did was wicked in the LORD's sight; so He
put him to death also." Onan's motivation was selfish; he used Tamar
for his own pleasure, but refused to perform his legal duty of
creating an heir for his deceased brother. This passage is often used
as evidence that God does not approve of birth control. However, it
was not the act of contraception that caused the Lord to put Onan to
death; it was Onan's selfish motives behind the action. Therefore, we
can find no biblical admonition against the use of birth control in
and of itself.

Contraception, by definition, is merely the opposite of conception. It
is not the use of contraception that is wrong or right. As we learned
from Onan, it is the motivation behind the contraception that
determines if it is right or wrong. Married couples use contraception
for a variety of reasons. Some feel called to put off childbearing
until they are in a better position to care for children. Some, such
as missionary couples, may feel their service to God overrides the
desire for children at a particular point in time. Some may be
convinced that God has a different plan for them. Ultimately, a
couple's motives for delaying childbearing, using contraception, or
even having numerous children, are between them and God.

The inability to have children when they are desired is always
presented in Scripture as a bad thing, especially considering the
cultural stigma attached to childlessness at that time. There is no
one in the Bible who expressed a desire not to have any children. At
the same time, it cannot be argued from the Bible that it is wrong to
use birth control for a limited time, or even permanently, for that
matter. All married couples should seek the Lord's will in regards to
when they should try to have children and how many children they seek
to have.

It all comes down to this: no one has the right to determine whether
someone else should or should not use birth control, how many children
is the "right" number for them, or whether they should have children
at all. As in all things, we are not to judge others or cause brothers
and sisters in Christ to stumble, spiritually speaking.

Note - the principles outlined in this article apply equally,
generally speaking, to the various methods of birth control, including
using a condom / condoms, diaphragm / diaphragms, spermicide /
spermicides, contraceptives, intrauterine devices, IUD, or coitus
interruptus.