The Golden Rule - Matthew 7:12: “So in everything, do to others what you would have them do to you, for this sums up the Law and the Prophets.”

The "Golden Rule" is the name given to a principle Jesus taught in His
Sermon on the Mount. The actual words "Golden Rule" are not found in
Scripture, just as the words "Sermon on the Mount" are also not found.
These titles were later added by Bible translation teams in order to
make Bible study a little easier. The phrase "Golden Rule" began to be
ascribed to this Jesus' teaching during the 16th–17th centuries.

What we call the Golden Rule refers to Matthew 7:12: "So in
everything, do to others what you would have them do to you, for this
sums up the Law and the Prophets." Jesus knew the human heart and its
selfishness. In fact, in the preceding verse, He describes human
beings as innately "evil" (verse 11). Jesus' Golden Rule gives us a
standard by which naturally selfish people can gauge their actions:
actively treat others the way they themselves like to be treated.

The English Standard Version translates the Golden Rule like this:
"Whatever you wish that others would do to you, do also to them, for
this is the Law and the Prophets." Jesus brilliantly condenses the
entire Old Testament into this single principle, taken from Leviticus
19:18: "Do not seek revenge or bear a grudge against anyone among your
people, but love your neighbor as yourself. I am the LORD." Again, we
see the implication that people are naturally lovers of self, and the
command uses that human flaw as a place to start in how to treat
others.

People universally demand respect, love, and appreciation, whether
they deserve it or not. Jesus understood this desire and used it to
promote godly behavior. Do you want to be shown respect? Then respect
others. Do you crave a kind word? Then speak words of kindness to
others. "It is more blessed to give than to receive" (Acts 20:35). The
Golden Rule is also part of the second greatest commandment, preceded
only by the command to love God Himself (Matthew 22:37–39).

What is interesting to note about the Golden Rule is that no other
religious or philosophical system has its equal. Jesus' Golden Rule is
not the "ethic of reciprocity" so commonly espoused by non-Christian
moralists. Frequently, liberal critics and secular humanists attempt
to explain away the uniqueness of the Golden Rule, saying it is a
common ethic shared by all religions. This is not the case. Jesus'
command has a subtle, but very important, difference. A quick survey
of the sayings of Eastern religions will make this plain:

• Confucianism: "Do not do to others what you do not want them to do
to you" (Analects 15:23)
• Hindusim: "This is the sum of duty: do not do to others what would
cause pain if done to you" (Mahabharata 5:1517)
• Buddhism: "Hurt not others in ways that you yourself would find
hurtful" (Udanavarga 5:18)

These sayings are similar to the Golden Rule but are stated negatively
and rely on passivity. Jesus' Golden Rule is a positive command to
show love proactively. The Eastern religions say, "Refrain from
doing"; Jesus says, "Do!" The Eastern religions say it is enough to
hold your negative behavior in check; Jesus says to look for ways to
act positively. Because of the "inverted" nature of the non-Christian
sayings, they have been described as the "silver rule."

Some have accused Jesus of "borrowing" the idea of the Golden Rule
from the Eastern religions. However, the texts for Confucianism,
Hinduism, and Buddhism, cited above, were all written between 500 and
400 BC, at the earliest. Jesus takes the Golden Rule from Leviticus,
written about 1450 BC. So, Jesus' source for the Golden Rule predates
the "silver rule" by about 1,000 years. Who "borrowed" from whom?

The command to love is what separates the Christian ethic from every
other religion's ethic. In fact, the Bible's championing of love
includes the radical command to love even one's enemies (Matthew
5:43–44; cf. Exodus 23:4–5). This is unheard of in other religions.

Obeying the Christian imperative to love others is a mark of a true
Christian (John 13:35). In fact, Christians cannot claim to love God
if they don't actively love other people as well. "If someone says, 'I
love God' and hates his brother, he is a liar; for the one who does
not love his brother whom he has seen, cannot love God whom he has not
seen" (1 John 4:20). The Golden Rule encapsulates this idea and is
unique to the Judeo-Christian Scriptures.